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Post by 40oz on Jan 16, 2018 10:42:55 GMT -5
TV star Aziz Ansari (from Parks and Recreation and Netflix original Master of None) managed to get roped into the #metoo movement, a twitter movement where women are revealing events of rape, sexual harassment, and sexual misconduct with famous celebrities. An article published on babe.net interviews a person who chooses to remain anonymous (She goes by "Grace" in the article) had a date with Aziz Ansari that didn't go so well. According to the facts of what actually happened, by her own account, there's very little to go off of about what Aziz did wrong. >>DETAILS>> They went out to dinner, they went back to his apartment, had white wine instead of Grace's preferred red win, he did some diddly to her, she did some doodly to him, Aziz made an advance that suggested he wanted to have sex, she was not sure how she felt about it. Aziz backed off, and they watched some TV together. During tv, Grace realized she actually definitely didn't want to have sex with him, so she said she was leaving and went to call an uber. Aziz offered to call for her. The Uber picked her up and she cried the whole way home. <<DETAILS<< The article below describes the event in more detail, but with a lot of emotional feelings and fluff that cloud anything Aziz could have possibly noticed or interpreted to perfect understanding without any verbal communication being exchanged. There's not a whole lot to get fired up about here as most of the headlines that are reporting on this event seem to suggest that Grace is worse for making a #metoo claim than Aziz is for making a sexual advance. So basically the thing we all knew was going to happen is happening. A loser who did some dumb shit is actually trying to steal the spotlight for actual rape victims. babe.net/2018/01/13/aziz-ansari-28355
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Post by deathevokation on Jan 16, 2018 12:35:04 GMT -5
So basically he made a sexual advance (god forbid) on a girl that went back to his apartment after a party and then respected her wishes when she declined and got her an uber? Shouldn't they be targeting the guys who don't back off? Because there's more than enough of those guys in Hollywood.
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Post by 40oz on Jan 16, 2018 13:07:55 GMT -5
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Post by deathevokation on Jan 16, 2018 15:37:07 GMT -5
Feminism is Cancer.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 16, 2018 17:57:01 GMT -5
It really pisses me off when twisted selfish cunts exploit the goodwill and trust of others for personal gain or spotlight, especially like this when it can potentially harm an innocent person.
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Post by Justince on Jan 16, 2018 19:11:53 GMT -5
Who'd want to bang that goofball? No wonder she bailed.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 16, 2018 22:58:11 GMT -5
^ROFL
As you said 40, this is something we all knew was coming. In response to that chick's tweet above, men have feelings too so we're familiar with pain/wishing things worked differently/etc. What possible further change could she be asking for? A telepathic ability to INSTANTLY know if it's going to work out? Sounds nice but sorry, men and women alike are just human - at this point in our evolutionary history, we have to spend a bit of time chatting and sometimes go back to someone's house before realizing it isn't going to work. Yes, that can hurt at times. No, that pain is not exclusively felt by women. Whining about our "current culture" means precisely fuck all if you don't offer reasonable suggestions alongside it.
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Post by deathevokation on Jan 17, 2018 3:50:57 GMT -5
Hollywood has a REAL problem with elites getting away with indecently exposing themselves to other men, women and children... groping them, threatening to use violence, blackmail or influence (within the industry) to force them to comply with their sexual demands, actual rape, setting up "interviews" that end up with the interviewee getting cornered... all cases that have something in common, and that is malice and ill intent is involved. Adding some guy who probably had a poor game or failed to read her vibes or pick up on body language (or gave off goofball vibes because he got rejected) just looks like a selfish ideological move (on feminism's part) to advance the definition of sexual harassment. When you're drunk sometimes you get over confident and don't pick things on things like body language and don't actually know if you're going to get lucky until you pull a move. Guys can make misjudgments, too.. especially when alcohol is involved.. when I once got rejected by a dream girl I really really liked.. I tried to take it in stride but eventually became an awkward weirdo and everything from my posture to my body language shut down and while I tried my best to remain polite I definitely gave off weird vibes and had everyone asking me to relax. Oftentimes it's these low energy vibes that repulse women the most. Given that it was only later she doubled down it might be this? Either way, speculation aside, why does the article go on to mention he gave her the wrong wine anyway? He clearly took "no" for an answer, there was always an easy way for her to walk out of the "situation" and call an Uber so obviously there was no coercion, feminists always say that you have to communicate you want sex.. so how does he deserve a spot even in a Buzzfeed or Teen Vogue rantpiece... let alone a movement dedicated to exposing the sinister shit I mentioned in my first paragraph. Where is the malice? Where's the coercion? I love reading juicy details about karma catching up to an out of touch elite psychopath.. where can I find them? I don't even see any existing feminist talking point that he's in violation of.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 17, 2018 9:54:52 GMT -5
Ultra-feminist women reporting events like these as further proof of "rape culture" only serves to take credence away from their movement, and honestly makes them look insane and out of touch with reality.
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Post by 40oz on Jan 24, 2018 8:41:18 GMT -5
My problem with this, and I'm pretty sure this goes for everyone who has a problem with this, is that these weak allegations take place under the same label that really important allegations are also taking place. These really serious allegations are few and far between, but the weak allegations are common and when considered, they end up dragging down the seriousness of the actual important sexual assault allegations. So when people are getting accused under this #metoo movement, and it turns out to be horseshit, this puts us all in this state of questioning.
"Uhh ok, here's another one, so did he really do something bad or did this girl just have a bad day?"
I don't want to have to question this!
I want all sexually harrassed women to receive the recompense they deserve. But shifting the definition of a word to fit into an obtuse spectrum is not making us more aware, its corroding my attention and making everything seem unimportant when it really is!
Rape needs to be rape. Sexual assault needs to be sexual assault. It's very important for the safety and sanity of our civilization that words mean what they're supposed to mean and that people who are either feeling attention deprived or vengeful are not getting in the way of real problems.
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