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Post by xeepeep on Feb 23, 2024 13:06:43 GMT -5
5,5 years of my life down the drain
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Post by Deleted on Feb 23, 2024 14:05:04 GMT -5
You should re-enroll when you can. What kind of a fucking job/life are you going to have without a formal degree?
Without a degree, you have lower chances of getting a well-paying job.
Without money, nobody will want to know you. Even the friends you have now will turn their fucking back on you once they start building their lives.
I strongly suggest you re-evaluate your decision.
I'm almost 40 years old. I stopped going to school for about a year, and starting working. But then I eventually went back, and earned a degree. Best decision I ever made. I paid it off too.
More than just the job aspect of it, there's a social one as well. You think you're going to find a quality wife that respects you for dropping out of fucking school!? Think about it man.
Besides what else is there to do? Talk to a bunch of fucking loser retards on a doom forum? Go back to school.
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Post by SilverMiner on Feb 23, 2024 15:32:43 GMT -5
5,5 years of my life down the drain I thought like in Europe 3 years is enough to get bachelor, right?
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Post by nnn✓ork on Feb 23, 2024 15:54:48 GMT -5
I wonder what the sunken costs are for ya. If it's not too far off, some degrees have merit and clout that can get you in certain doors slightly easier.
I've always had mixed feelings about university though. I think it ended up being worth it for me, but there's lots of bumps and bruises even after college that makes you question whether it's a waste or not.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 23, 2024 16:04:38 GMT -5
couldn't say from the perspective of actually living in a first world country, trades are probably better ways to make moolah, i've also known retards who dropped out and made decent amounts of it in programming and such, whereas no one gives any shit about my degree (but i kinda knew that going in, no regrets since i genuinely hate people and life itself too much to actually care about status)
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Post by Deleted on Feb 23, 2024 16:18:48 GMT -5
I feel that even if it is a bullshit degree, employers will always consider you more if you have some degree, rather than none. I actually work in a field that has absolutely nothing to do with what I went to school in.
Of course, it is much better to major in something like corporate law, finance or some kind of engineering.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 23, 2024 16:23:06 GMT -5
couldn't say from the perspective of actually living in a first world country, trades are probably better ways to make moolah, i've also known retards who dropped out and made decent amounts of it in programming and such, whereas no one gives any shit about my degree (but i kinda knew that going in, no regrets since i genuinely hate people and life itself too much to actually care about status) Regarding trades, you're right, a plumber, electrician, or carpenter could make a lot of money. Ultimately you'd want to start a contracting business. But on the other hand, that's probably a lot more work than just getting a degree. Nevertheless, the best part about being handy like that is that you're not beholden to contractors, who are really terrible to deal with. Most of them really fit the stereotype, in my experience.
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Post by dn on Feb 23, 2024 16:35:28 GMT -5
depends on what the degree was, I guess.
Why did you drop out?
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Post by xeepeep on Feb 23, 2024 17:36:53 GMT -5
I strongly suggest you re-evaluate your decision. I sincerely appreciate the glimpse into my future but I've been thinking about this for over a year, and in fact I should've done it then, in 2022. Now I'm only older, more mentally deranged and less healthy. I don't have what it takes to graduate (otherwise I would've long ago). Exams are easy but writing a bachelor's thesis is so far beyond my capabilities I couldn't even properly start. It's pathetic and in hindsight, unironically seeing a therapist would've probably helped me. But oh well. I'm quite disappointed in myself right now, but I'm confident I'll figure something out - because what else is there to do, right? I've always wanted to work in a restaurant anyway. Ecology and environmental protection. One of the easiest degrees out there actually. I thought like in Europe 3 years is enough to get bachelor, right? It is
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Post by Deleted on Feb 23, 2024 19:06:13 GMT -5
I strongly suggest you re-evaluate your decision. I sincerely appreciate the glimpse into my future but I've been thinking about this for over a year, and in fact I should've done it then, in 2022. Now I'm only older, more mentally deranged and less healthy. I don't have what it takes to graduate (otherwise I would've long ago). Exams are easy but writing a bachelor's thesis is so far beyond my capabilities I couldn't even properly start. It's pathetic and in hindsight, unironically seeing a therapist would've probably helped me. But oh well. I'm quite disappointed in myself right now, but I'm confident I'll figure something out - because what else is there to do, right? I've always wanted to work in a restaurant anyway. Ecology and environmental protection. One of the easiest degrees out there actually. I thought like in Europe 3 years is enough to get bachelor, right? It is Sorry to lay it on thick, but that's how people used to speak to me when I decided to stop going to school, and I partly credit it for changing my mind. Best of luck dude.
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Post by Killer5 on Feb 23, 2024 22:11:14 GMT -5
If you aren't into getting a college degree go for something like becoming an apprentice to an electrician or plumber etc. These dudes can make loads of cash and will always be relevant.
Wish you luck regardless.
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Post by SilverMiner on Feb 24, 2024 3:16:55 GMT -5
Exams are easy but writing a bachelor's thesis is so far beyond my capabilities I couldn't even properly start Реально, экзамены и домашка это фигня, а вот отчёты по практике или дипломная работа - это пиздец
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Post by good-old on Feb 24, 2024 5:59:41 GMT -5
@kontrakommando I don't think people who won't talk to you because you dropped out of school are worth talking to anyway.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 24, 2024 8:50:46 GMT -5
@kontrakommando I don't think people who won't talk to you because you dropped out of school are worth talking to anyway. You'll see what I mean in due time. Also, when you confide in people your problems, the next thing you know they're going to be fucking laughing at you behind your back. Trust me, the older your get, you will see how much people don't give a fuck about you in society. When they go to sleep at night, they forget about you. A lot of people are hypocrites. Moreover, they have their own priorities. It is also why you really shouldn't take too much advice from others. Because they're not walking in your shoes. Only you will actually know what is right. I'm lucky to have a some friends that I still have from childhood, but they're all busy with also having families and homes. We only get to hang out occasionally when we have time. We hang out because we have something in common. You think they would be hanging out with me if I was by myself, with nothing going on? Maybe, but they would probably having little in common in me, and it would be awkward for sure. When we talking about our lives, we have much in common. That's a big basis of what it means to have a friendship. You just kind of fall out of hanging out with a lot of people. Sometimes, it is because they're envious of your accomplishments, and they have their own struggles. Who knows, it might not be the same for everyone. But in my experience, it happens to many people.
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Post by good-old on Feb 24, 2024 10:33:40 GMT -5
@kontrakommando I don't think people who won't talk to you because you dropped out of school are worth talking to anyway. You'll see what I mean in due time. Also, when you confide in people your problems, the next thing you know they're going to be fucking laughing at you behind your back. Trust me, the older your get, you will see how much people don't give a fuck about you in society. When they go to sleep at night, they forget about you. A lot of people are hypocrites. Moreover, they have their own priorities. It is also why you really shouldn't take too much advice from others. Because they're not walking in your shoes. Only you will actually know what is right. I'm lucky to have a some friends that I still have from childhood, but they're all busy with also having families and homes. We only get to hang out occasionally when we have time. We hang out because we have something in common. You think they would be hanging out with me if I was by myself, with nothing going on? Maybe, but they would probably having little in common in me, and it would be awkward for sure. When we talking about our lives, we have much in common. That's a big basis of what it means to have a friendship. You just kind of fall out of hanging out with a lot of people. Sometimes, it is because they're envious of your accomplishments, and they have their own struggles. Who knows, it might not be the same for everyone. But in my experience, it happens to many people. I definitely agree with most of what you said(in this post specifically) and it's part of why I have that opinion. You're especially correct that most people don't give a fuck about you in society. That, and because of the need to have things in common like you said, I believe that it's better to have friends on the internet. I plan on writing something long about this some other day because it's so negatively viewed by everyone despite it being the obvious best choice considering how real life is. I also think you're correct that less people will want to talk to you if you're a dropout,(never disagreed in the first place) my point was, are people who do that really worth your time?
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Post by Deleted on Feb 24, 2024 10:47:43 GMT -5
it's fine to have online friendships or friendship adjacent things, it's inherently less about playing social games and more about sharing common interests, if you can't get that irl for whatever reason -- they can be honest and truthful and last for decades, or maybe not. takes a special kind of character though, i'm better than most people at dealing with loneliness and borderline social suicide
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Post by StodgyAyatollah on Feb 24, 2024 15:11:49 GMT -5
5,5 years of my life down the drain Better than 40. Life's all about trying to play with the hands you're dealt and it sounds like you either had to bluff or fold so you may have made the right choice, even if late. Good time to take a step back and do an honest evaluation of yourself to look at your current hand. Consider where you want to be in 20, 30, 40 years. You don't need specifics just a general target. What are realistic ways YOU have a chance to achieve that and can still live with yourself. Once you have some ideas start taking small steps in that direction. Stay flexible but keep stepping. Life's a long arduous marathon not a sprint. Time does accelerate as you age though so the sooner you can start taking those steps the better. You say you've wanted to work at a restaurant so go out and get a job at one while you try to sort yourself out. Here in 'merica university is a scam outside of a handful of things like the medical industry or engineering so keep in mind it's not all the same. I do always suggest a trade to anyone with the temperament for it over higher education. I've never once considered someones education in the hiring process. Only their experience and how they do in their interview. Can only speak for myself on that one though. Also you should take advice on a video game forum about as seriously as I take 95% of your posts. The burden's all yours.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 24, 2024 17:04:03 GMT -5
Here's the thing Xeep, what are you going to do now that you have decided to stop going to school? Will you take up a trade?
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Post by Deleted on Feb 24, 2024 17:23:49 GMT -5
5,5 years of my life down the drain Better than 40. Life's all about trying to play with the hands you're dealt and it sounds like you either had to bluff or fold so you may have made the right choice, even if late. Good time to take a step back and do an honest evaluation of yourself to look at your current hand. Consider where you want to be in 20, 30, 40 years. You don't need specifics just a general target. What are realistic ways YOU have a chance to achieve that and can still live with yourself. Once you have some ideas start taking small steps in that direction. Stay flexible but keep stepping. Life's a long arduous marathon not a sprint. Time does accelerate as you age though so the sooner you can start taking those steps the better. You say you've wanted to work at a restaurant so go out and get a job at one while you try to sort yourself out. Here in 'merica university is a scam outside of a handful of things like the medical industry or engineering so keep in mind it's not all the same. I do always suggest a trade to anyone with the temperament for it over higher education. I've never once considered someones education in the hiring process. Only their experience and how they do in their interview. Can only speak for myself on that one though. Also you should take advice on a video game forum about as seriously as I take 95% of your posts. The burden's all yours. Well tbh, I also don't think everyone is cut out for college. It would actually be better if less people went, because they would spare themselves the trouble, and do what comes naturally to them. Plus grade inflation just to push people through wouldn't debase the academic standards. That's why college is considered a "scam" in some regard, because college has become high school. It is no longer a place to distinguish yourself. Nevertheless, I think if someone puts in 5 1/2 years into something, they should try to see it through. All he has to do is write a thesis? I don't see why that is so insurmountable. Just do it, and give it a shot. Put your balls to the fucking wall, and do it. WTF man! Take a tutoring class for writing if you have to. When I went back to school, I worked at the same time, and paid for school out of my own pocket. Maybe because I actually had to put my own money into it, and potentially flush it down the drain if I fucked up, was a major motivator. I have to say, I really like the way the Russians do it. College is free, but if you fuck up, you have to pay. GOOD! Personally for myself, the 38 and half years of my life have been a life fulfilled. I have a house, I have a wife, I have children, I have wealth, I've traveled the world. In my salad days I lived the Rock n Roll lifestyle, and had a lot of fun. In my life, I've rubbed elbows with the lowest and highest members of society. I attribute having a well rounded life experience partly to getting my degree. I needed to fail at the task before I could pick myself up again to see it through. I gained the discipline to see it through. My family put a lot of importance on getting an education, because they never wanted me to live a life like they did working with their hands, and breaking their back. So maybe I just see it differently. I would never encourage my children to not go to school. In fact we are already on their teachers' asses to do their jobs properly, because I know a lot of educators are lazy asses.
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Post by xeepeep on Feb 24, 2024 18:01:16 GMT -5
Nevertheless, I think if someone puts in 5 1/2 years into something, they should try to see it through. I did try, and failed. Which is extremely disappointing but not disheartening, I know I did the best I could. Anyway I have no plans. Once I'm back home I'll have to see a doctor for multiple issues. After that I'll see. I should probably get my driver's licence, there's that. But I'm really not stressed. I'm from a big city, there are plenty of jobs and I need very little money. We're not soulless Americans so I don't have to pay anyone rent. As for trades I might. Tradesmen are in very high demand in my country since everyone leaves for western europe, and the jobs aren't complicated either. What concerns me is that they can be rough on one's health, but from what I've seen a lot of men (esp in my country) just don't care about the necessary precautions. Niggas just be inhaling paint or kneeling all day and shiet. I'm a lot more mindful of that sort of thing as I'm already quite fragile physically. I mean I'd certainly get called a pussy but I'd have the last laugh.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 24, 2024 19:41:23 GMT -5
Nevertheless, I think if someone puts in 5 1/2 years into something, they should try to see it through. I did try, and failed. Which is extremely disappointing but not disheartening, I know I did the best I could. Anyway I have no plans. Once I'm back home I'll have to see a doctor for multiple issues. After that I'll see. I should probably get my driver's licence, there's that. But I'm really not stressed. I'm from a big city, there are plenty of jobs and I need very little money. We're not soulless Americans so I don't have to pay anyone rent. As for trades I might. Tradesmen are in very high demand in my country since everyone leaves for western europe, and the jobs aren't complicated either. What concerns me is that they can be rough on one's health, but from what I've seen a lot of men (esp in my country) just don't care about the necessary precautions. Niggas just be inhaling paint or kneeling all day and shiet. I'm a lot more mindful of that sort of thing as I'm already quite fragile physically. I mean I'd certainly get called a pussy but I'd have the last laugh. I hope you get the help you need, and figure out what you want to do. Being a tradesman can indeed be lucrative, and save you a lot of money instead of having to rely on others to do work on your house. Getting a license is a good short term goal to accomplish.
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Post by StodgyAyatollah on Feb 24, 2024 20:52:58 GMT -5
Niggas just be inhaling paint or kneeling all day and shiet. That's pretty normal everywhere. Where there's men you'll find plenty of people on the low end of the bell curve. @kontrakommando I mostly agree about finishing what you start but there's always times you have to cut your losses and lick your wounds. Xeep is either making a bad choice or is in one of those situations but it's on him. As for American colleges they've pretty much been broken since the underwater basket weaving joke started. I've never met anyone who didn't regret going outside of the very few high end fields they should solely exist for. A house of cards debasing it's own value and ready for collapse. All US education is pretty broken though and I would personally love to see the dept of education gutted for how much of a failure it's been.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 25, 2024 0:23:50 GMT -5
Niggas just be inhaling paint or kneeling all day and shiet. That's pretty normal everywhere. Where there's men you'll find plenty of people on the low end of the bell curve. @kontrakommando I mostly agree about finishing what you start but there's always times you have to cut your losses and lick your wounds. Xeep is either making a bad choice or is in one of those situations but it's on him. As for American colleges they've pretty much been broken since the underwater basket weaving joke started. I've never met anyone who didn't regret going outside of the very few high end fields they should solely exist for. A house of cards debasing it's own value and ready for collapse. All US education is pretty broken though and I would personally love to see the dept of education gutted for how much of a failure it's been. Personally, I think once Androids are actually a thing, you could probably get one for home-schooling. It would be like having a personal Aristotle to be a tutor, that could provide you an Ivy-league education.
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Post by dn on Feb 25, 2024 1:53:35 GMT -5
All US education is pretty broken though and I would personally love to see the dept of education gutted for how much of a failure it's been. What makes you think it's a failure? Jesus, an educated populace is the government's worst nightmare. Can you imagine if people had enough economic nous to see what's coming down the road? Are there even enough lamp-posts in Washington to hang all those representatives? American retardation is a feature, not a bug.
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Post by good-old on Feb 25, 2024 2:11:01 GMT -5
Isn't that blatantly obvious? For one of the 5 trillion things wrong with school, how much of the things we're taught do we really need in real life?
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