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Post by Deleted on Nov 3, 2020 9:24:11 GMT -5
Your view is actually reasonable, some (? never done any research on numbers) feminists deny men can suffer in life, but suffering can happen to any person, and comparing various person's sufferings in regards to "who had it worse" is not a good idea in my opinion. I basically consider all attempts to designate some social groups as requiring special protection (as opposed to the notion "all equal under law") or for "proportional representation" as incapable of actually achieving justice, because it just turns oppressed into the oppressors, reversing the flow of oppression but never eliminitating the tendency of people (perhaps our flawed human nature?) to oppress others. Also, I consider the idea of ancestral guilt to be unfair. At least in Christianity, Christ died so that people would answer for their sins alone and not of their parents - but we have now "white guilt", "German/Japanese guilt" and other forms of bullshit. I hate historical Nazis for invading USSR, but I don't hold present day German people responsible for any of it. I disapprove of the notion there are "privileged groups", as there are people who may belong to what may be called "privileged" group, but who are on the very bottom of society, with no prospect of rising. It's best to ignore those who try to infect you with guilt. Don't let their arguments win over you. If what they say sounds unfair to you, that's because it is. You might not be able to win a debate with them or defend your views in public, but your heart knows the truth. If what they said was fair, it would not cause you grief. It's just a ploy to get more power over people without giving anything positive in return.
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Post by printz on Nov 9, 2020 2:08:46 GMT -5
I assume there's lots of crap and paranoia about the evil progressives taking away our manliness in this thread, so I'm gonna tell you that I didn't waste time reading it.
I used to find "toxic masculinity" offensive, because I perceived it as misandry, until I realized that guys can be whatever they want and if someone calls them out or harasses them, it's very easy to defend. It's a bigger problem for child boys because they don't have the confidence and experience to defend, and yeah I had to grow through that and probably still need to shed some insecurities away, though I'm clearly progressing and can easily tell anyone to fuck off if they tell me how to act as a guy.
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Post by 40oz on Nov 9, 2020 9:33:44 GMT -5
The logic used to declare toxic masculinity nonexistent doesn't apply to anything else in life. Toxic masculinity cant exist because there's already general toxicity? Sexual assault cant exist because regular assault already exists? First person shooters cant exist because there are already shooters? Slaughtermaps can't be real because there are already maps?
What designates toxic masculinity among other forms of toxicity is that there are specific male centric toxic traits that are bred from shitty men that get together that are not bred when groups of shitty women get together. There's a lot of competition among men that, when not focused on positive things, can escalate to very dangerous and violent behavior.
I'm stronger than you! I can fight you! I can drink more beers than you! I can fuck more women than you! etc. etc. Insecure men who need to overcompensate in these areas to impress their male peers can get overly attached to the concept of winning at these things and become very dangerous when challenged. If you get the worst kinds of women together it, it gets bad in other ways but not like this.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 9, 2020 9:46:09 GMT -5
printz, What a great way to contribute to the thread, though - tell other people you didn't bother trying to understand their opinion, then proceed with telling them your own. "evil progressives taking away our manliness" - that's a strawman argument, because we didn't say it, you assumed it - as per your own admission - and the fact that you admit you made an assumption does nothing to excuse you from actually employing the tactic. Which tactic is to dismiss your opponent views outright, placing yourself above others. Besides, you didn't really cover up your contempt well by saying "reading our opinions will waste your time". That you then proceed to talk as if you shed "toxicity" away after acting in this very specific masculous way makes you seem like a hypocrite. The telltale things is that you: 1) consider your opinion important and seek to give advices/be valued for your opinions on various subjects (women are less inclined to act this way). Made evident by the fact that you contributed your opinion while ignoring other people opinions. 2) express contempt for other people opinions over trying to find common ground, love and valuing interpersonal connection (man's stereotypic way vs woman's) 3) the language you employed: "had to grow through that", "can easily tell anyone to fuck off". Oh yes, you sure have one hell of a way telling anyone to fuck off, it would be much better if you learned to respect and understand other people instead. It seems like you have to make a lot of progress still. In the thread you didn't read, there were actually arguments that toxicity is not limited to a gender (or some other social group), and that masculinity is not limited to either sex. But why bother reading what others wrote, these people are all inferior to you in their understanding (not really). Also, 40oz made a really good point about "not always thinking you know all the answers".
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Post by Deleted on Nov 9, 2020 9:54:17 GMT -5
40oz, it's hard to define "toxic masculinity" because it's hard to agree on definition of "masculinity" to begin with. When you are look into it you will find masculine traits in both sexes. Also, even if we were to define and accept this term, the criticism that it can be used to attach label to people in effort to cause shame and confusion and undermine themselves is valid. Because it can be employed as an attack vector, consciously with malevolence or uncosciously. This, however, raises the question of whether there is a better way to solve the issue of "toxicity" - a true answer would be the one that actually motivates the people to change for the better without destroying them. "Toxic masculinity" simply is not constructive way to promote better behaviour in people. A constructive way is needed, but this approach is the wrong one.
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Post by 40oz on Nov 9, 2020 9:59:35 GMT -5
@vigilantdoomer It's just an identifier. It's a particular type of masculinity unique to men. It doesn't negate the existence of other kinds of toxicity.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 9, 2020 10:14:06 GMT -5
And which exactly particular type of masculinity it is then, and how does is this notion helpful? My perception is that: 1) it is not readily identifiable in a way all people will agree (other people may have different views of what masculinity entails) 2) because of the former (and also because it is attached , it is also prone to abuse in a hostile attempt to undermine other people, cause them shame and confusion.
! Also, how is "toxic masculinity" unique to men? Not really unique to men at all. Women acting in a way I perceive as masculine and uncaring are actually fairly common, for example, some ultra-conservative politicians with ridiculous views on family duties (must be no less than 3 children in what is to be considered a family), LGBT, etc. Not even just politicians, though, there are enough masculine women in real life, and they don't identify as men, but I just can't see them as women, I really see they as men-in-character, but fuck, very few men have fucked up mentality like that.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 9, 2020 10:16:11 GMT -5
In short, my criticism of "toxic masculinity" concept is not that it can't be defined, it can, but is not useful and is inferior solution with drawbacks as well. Strangely enough, the way printz posted and the way you are holding debates sometimes is actually both quite distinctively male and also aggressive, as if you wanted to shove your worldview down other people's throats. SO, how did the notion of "toxic masculinity" help you change your behaviour? I don't see your own reflecting your views well. You could be promoting left wing views, and the person you are talking to would become right-leaning without prior interest of politics. How come you can't understand this is beyond me - but, the worldview is actually defined through social adversity first and foremost.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 9, 2020 10:23:01 GMT -5
And if your definition of "toxic masculinity" doesn't include "promoting your views and seeking to mold the world in accordance with them in an uncaring fashion", then I don't see how such a notion could be useful.
Personal connection and avoidance of conflicts would be more important if you were actually taking lessons from women (the positive ones). It should be noted that while women do have conflicts between each other, on a women's forum where men can post it's the latter who usually seek and cause the most conflicts with other people. That is because women may hate each other but they also need themselves to be loved, where men prefer strife. A bit stereotypic sounding, but I don't use stereotypes as a form of labelling, only as loose pointers to something greater which can't be precisely captured by words.
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Post by 40oz on Nov 9, 2020 14:48:24 GMT -5
I don't really have the means to patiently give an education course on what toxic masculinity is. It's not very easy to explain because I personally am not an expert in it. I explain it to the best that I understand it, maybe the guy in this video can do it better. I've only let my guard down enough to listen and understand how it's defined by people who know what they're talking about. In the meantime I looked up some videos for people explaining what toxic masculinity is and I think this one does a pretty good job of it. Sorry it's ~18 minutes long.
I have to do some self-examination because my posts sharing what I know are consistently interpretted here as me driving my worldview down your throats. I just give my attention to people who want to serve the world in a positive and healthy way. I swear I don't have any agenda. I don't make any of this up. No one is paying me. It doesn't serve me in any way to force people into believing what I believe, (although paying some honest attention to this topic will truly serve everyone here for the better, I'm sure of it)
I share my opinions because I think it's worth reading. That's all.
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Post by GRUG on Nov 9, 2020 15:47:36 GMT -5
I take it most of you are young males (probably mid-twenties or late teens). You guys are in for a very turbulent ride when you discover that women don't desire the so-called "un-toxic" male. If you believe the feminist dogma that women really desire soft or sensitive males, or crave out of shape looking dad-bods (because lifting weights and getting in shape is toxic), or any other aspects of egalitarianism, then you are failing her shit test really fucking miserably.
TL;DR. Stop believing this toxic masculinity dogma. It won't get you in a meaningful romantic relationship, and she won't crave you sexually.
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Post by BIG DICK NIGGA on Nov 9, 2020 16:15:23 GMT -5
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Post by Deleted on Nov 9, 2020 16:27:15 GMT -5
I'll say it again. If it exists, women are also part of the problem. Many of them encourage such behaviors, as evidenced by my previous post and they would do well to admit it if they really want to change the problem. Young men especially are influenced by what women think of them. I'm not making a judgement btw, it is what it is. I hate to say it, and you can call it patriarchy or whatever but men with toxic masculinity built what we have. It wasn't nice, weak men. Therefore, while I think weakness and toxic masculinity are both bad I would sooner respect a toxic man with positive qualities than a weak, cowardly male who has some positive attributes but is unable to stand up for himself. Therefore, if the "toxic" attitude is used to build something it can but not always outweigh the negatives. I myself don't want to be like that and don't like such people but it is what it is.
On the flipside, there is another side to this. The Pickup Artist and especially Incel communities are exceedingly creepy. If you demean women and treat them like cattle or coin machines and act like they (or anyone else) owe you something, you deserve to be mocked. I have similar views on women who view men as only walking wallets. Some degree of objectification is natural in both genders but becomes harmful only when it prevents you from seeing the person before you as a person. I think such people are much much worse than the overtly aggressive ones.
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Post by 40oz on Nov 9, 2020 17:14:40 GMT -5
I'll say it again. If it exists, women are also part of the problem. Many of them encourage such behaviors, as evidenced by my previous post and they would do well to admit it if they really want to change the problem. Did you even read the article you're referring to? Remember I was just talking to you about propaganda? World War I, US propaganda poster
"Why would feminists split over the question of peace, a value that had once stood at the heart of the suffrage movement? First, the representation of the war itself was carefully designed to appeal to women. The brutal German invasion of Belgium in August 1914 was immediately characterized as a 'rape', and graphic images of sexual assault and the torture of women and children began to pour out of the occupied territories, gaining primacy as Britain’s ostensible reason for entering the war. Like news of mass rape in Darfur, Taliban femicide, or the kidnapping of Nigerian School girls, the 'Rape of Belgium' brought forth evocative images of women in danger and electrified world opinion in favor of a war with complex causes that were difficult for feminists to oppose." How come having personal accountability for your own actions matters when a heavily armed militarized police force is beating down the poor and disenfranchised here in the US, but when women are shaming masculine men into going to war against their moral principles a hundred years ago, it's not fair that women not take the blame for the toxicity of men today?
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Post by Deleted on Nov 9, 2020 21:48:27 GMT -5
I don't have time to engage in debate at the moment, so I will address only some parts of the posts I actually want to address. I have to do some self-examination because my posts sharing what I know are consistently interpretted here as me driving my worldview down your throats. I just give my attention to people who want to serve the world in a positive and healthy way. I swear I don't have any agenda. I don't make any of this up. No one is paying me. It doesn't serve me in any way to force people into believing what I believe, (although paying some honest attention to this topic will truly serve everyone here for the better, I'm sure of it) I share my opinions because I think it's worth reading. That's all. The particular case of toxicity I am pointing at is not about having an agenda or getting paid, but about relentless pursuit of debate and trying to change other people opinion's (especially when you declare your opinion is educated while theirs is not) or dictate how they should behave. I'll say it again. If it exists, women are also part of the problem. Many of them encourage such behaviors, as evidenced by my previous post and they would do well to admit it if they really want to change the problem. Did you even read the article you're referring to? Remember I was just talking to you about propaganda? He may have used an example from public sources, but he may also arrived at his opinion on his own, and I think I know where he - and GRUG - are coming from. No, it's not propaganda, it's the experience of growing up and trying to understand how to be a successful man - among other things, how to be attractive to women. It's about the experience of seeing some guy belittle a woman (using some innuendo) and her apparently enjoying (rather than protesting as from perspective of man this experience should be perceived as humiliating if one projected themselves to receive it) it and the man as well, whereas treating a girl you have yet nothing in common with care yields nothing but "thank you". That is, it is about being rejected for being nice but loved for doing things one might even initially hate (if one was brought up, say, by old parents who were religious), or at the very least surprised that such things can be attractive. Here is the relevant example from George Orwell's Nineteen Eighty-Four: I remember an incident where I was a schoolboy, riding in a public bus, and was real pissed and angry at some guy, so angry I could feel it radiating from my face. I thought about all the ways I can fuck him up, and I wasn't really happy having to go through all those thoughts. There was a girl across the bus who looked at me with some kind of silent reverence. Down inside I hated her for appreciating me in the moment where I was thinking about doing unpleasant things. Thinking about violence made me somehow attractive to her, but I wish such things were not. This is another thing you don't understand - those who use propaganda to back up their arguments may use it to back their arguments but not to derive their original worldview. The reason is that thoughts can be rooted in experience and thus be "wordless knowing", which doesn't fair well in arguments, so when one tries to engage in debate one seeks the sources out there to communicate, in which case they may well end up using some propagandistic material. The reason is, it takes so much time to find a way to backup what you feel, or have learned in wordless way as part of your personal experience. And you declaring "it's propaganda" does nothing to address it. You might (in theory) win a debate, but you won't actually change their mind, cause they actually know where they are truly coming from. Fuck, even as I had tried to limit my time to reply I still spent too much on it. I didn't even tell everything I wanted you to tell, but - for a start - this will have to do.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 9, 2020 21:59:41 GMT -5
I witnessed girls, mature or even old women look at young boys fighting, they root to see who comes out stronger and are in no way discouraging it. Tell me "it's propaganda", that's what I've seen. It is not in somebody news or article, it is life experience. And it's not their parents, either. It's society, women don't care if the fight is honourable (actually, in no cases where women were watching was a fight actually justified).
You like to label other people's talk a result of propaganda, but don't bother doing that to me, I always know where I am coming from even if I am not good at communicating/defending it.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 10, 2020 2:29:23 GMT -5
I'll say it again. If it exists, women are also part of the problem. Many of them encourage such behaviors, as evidenced by my previous post and they would do well to admit it if they really want to change the problem. Did you even read the article you're referring to? Remember I was just talking to you about propaganda? World War I, US propaganda poster
"Why would feminists split over the question of peace, a value that had once stood at the heart of the suffrage movement? First, the representation of the war itself was carefully designed to appeal to women. The brutal German invasion of Belgium in August 1914 was immediately characterized as a 'rape', and graphic images of sexual assault and the torture of women and children began to pour out of the occupied territories, gaining primacy as Britain’s ostensible reason for entering the war. Like news of mass rape in Darfur, Taliban femicide, or the kidnapping of Nigerian School girls, the 'Rape of Belgium' brought forth evocative images of women in danger and electrified world opinion in favor of a war with complex causes that were difficult for feminists to oppose." How come having personal accountability for your own actions matters when a heavily armed militarized police force is beating down the poor and disenfranchised here in the US, but when women are shaming masculine men into going to war against their moral principles a hundred years ago, it's not fair that women not take the blame for the toxicity of men today? Oh I see, so the suffering of men is less important than the suffering of women. If men are equal to women that is not possible. If that is the case, I should not have to care about their suffering anymore than I care about that of random dude, which is to say not at all. I'm sure getting raped by a huge, disgusting guy is awful but at the mere threat of that, men need to endure just as worse, if not worse pains by being torn to shreds by machine gun fire, blown to bits by constant bombardment and then being unceremoniously eaten by huge rats at night. So when women are merely threatened, men need to endure any kind of pain. I'm not saying that's NOT what men should do if the danger is real and immediate but it's funny to hear this from feminists, who constantly hammer that women are as good as men in every way. Why don't they defend themselves then? Why do I owe my life to a bunch of strangers then? Oh please, women complain all the time about how they were treated by men hundreds of years ago and act like it still affects them. If MEN complain about their problems they will be mocked by men AND women. EDIT: Also, it doesn't matter if it's propaganda. It exploited what was already inside these women so they are still part of the problem.
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Post by dn on Nov 10, 2020 7:26:09 GMT -5
I r Chad I violent I punch teh fase Maek bitchis wet I drink teh beers Coz I am boss And then deniy Teh holocaust
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Post by 40oz on Nov 10, 2020 8:53:44 GMT -5
Oh please, women complain all the time about how they were treated by men hundreds of years ago and act like it still affects them. If MEN complain about their problems they will be mocked by men AND women. Oh please what? If it's absurd when feminists do it then why does it apply when YOU supply "evidence"?
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Post by Deleted on Nov 10, 2020 10:15:07 GMT -5
After some more thinking, here is my conclusion about perspective of "toxic masculinity" concept. People have every single reason to remain suspicious about whether the concept can be applied to their life. As long as you do not present a positive role model at the end of this pursuit that people can be aspired to imitate and take cues from - a person with fair character, successful, possessing wealth, having a family, etc who were able to achieve it all while applying this advice and it didn't affect them in a negative way - there are simply no guarantees. What is the result of combating one's own "toxic masculinity", from perspective of life's achievements? I believe this is a valid concern, that other posters have raised. Given that both printz and you, 40oz, have treated other participants in this discussion without respect, by claiming other people were posting crap, are paranoid, don't deserve attention (allocating time to reading and understanding their views, also empathy), need an education course, and elsewhere - in the thread doomer.boards.net/thread/1892/shadowman-incident-left-feel-betrayed - you told fellow doomers repeatedly (twice) in one post of yours to "shut the fuck up", and used word "fuck" several times when belittling their opinions - you both are no such role model. I wouldn't want to act in a way either of you does. The following is also irrelevant: whether you are paid or not, whether you have a political agenda or not. What matters is that you spoke to others in rude and condescending manner, without respect. Which, given the current subject, makes you seem a hypocrite. It should be noted that we had mostly polite discussion, or rather than having a discussion, were indeed simply sharing our own opinions, with virtually no insult directed at other participants - until the printz post. Well, it looks like we actually managed to maintain that even sometime afterwards. P.S. My other issue (this is one I raised but not the other people) with the term is that I, in general, don't trust such terms (which are based on division some phenomena into various categories) to reflect reality accurately, that includes the notion of "masculinity" (or "feminity") itself, let alone a "toxic" subspecies of one. In short, I believe it's best to avoid relying on categories to establish one's worldview whenever it is possible to do without them.
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Post by 40oz on Nov 11, 2020 0:37:35 GMT -5
He may have used an example from public sources, but he may also arrived at his opinion on his own, and I think I know where he - and GRUG - are coming from. No, it's not propaganda, it's the experience of growing up and trying to understand how to be a successful man - among other things, how to be attractive to women. It's about the experience of seeing some guy belittle a woman (using some innuendo) and her apparently enjoying (rather than protesting as from perspective of man this experience should be perceived as humiliating if one projected themselves to receive it) it and the man as well, whereas treating a girl you have yet nothing in common with care yields nothing but "thank you". That is, it is about being rejected for being nice but loved for doing things one might even initially hate (if one was brought up, say, by old parents who were religious), or at the very least surprised that such things can be attractive. You're misunderstanding me, I don't think I was very clear. I didn't intend to suggest that the article cited or that the mistrust of feminism is propaganda. My post was to remind doomro that media manipulation provokes the public to think, say, and do things that they likely wouldn't think say or do without it's influence. And I was just talking about it's probably effecting him more than he knows when he said 'fuck you' to me, my friends and family without even knowing who they are. Doomro cited the story of feminists shaming men into going to war as an example of women being toxic and therefore toxic masculinity isn't real/isn't useful to acknowledge. Then later in the article, it elaborates that the feminists have always been known to be pro-peace. It changed because a propaganda campaign designed to break up the feminist movement presented the war as a feminist issue, and people bought into it, forming the white feather feminist groups. The parallel I'm making is that the current state of our media is not simply free press, it's owned by large corporations that have a vested interest to drive a wedge in the public. Its an "us vs them" attitude it wants its listeners to have. It's an enormous feedback loop of hyperbole formed in echo chambers, and it's effects often leak here onto this forum. It comes in the form of posts making contentious arguments against points that weren't even made here on the forum. Stating what the opposing party wants, thinks, and does when they aren't even here to speak for themselves. Were on this forum together, we should be talking to each other.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 11, 2020 2:00:19 GMT -5
He may have used an example from public sources, but he may also arrived at his opinion on his own, and I think I know where he - and GRUG - are coming from. No, it's not propaganda, it's the experience of growing up and trying to understand how to be a successful man - among other things, how to be attractive to women. It's about the experience of seeing some guy belittle a woman (using some innuendo) and her apparently enjoying (rather than protesting as from perspective of man this experience should be perceived as humiliating if one projected themselves to receive it) it and the man as well, whereas treating a girl you have yet nothing in common with care yields nothing but "thank you". That is, it is about being rejected for being nice but loved for doing things one might even initially hate (if one was brought up, say, by old parents who were religious), or at the very least surprised that such things can be attractive. My post was to remind doomro that media manipulation provokes the public to think, say, and do things that they likely wouldn't think say or do without it's influence. And I was just talking about it's probably effecting him more than he knows when he said 'fuck you' to me, my friends and family without even knowing who they are. Doomro cited the story of feminists shaming men into going to war as an example of women being toxic and therefore toxic masculinity isn't real/isn't useful to acknowledge. 1. Really? Then why do you sound like a typical leftist? So I should start listening to far left propaganda, right? 2. I didn't bring your friends up and I don't see why you had to. I said "these people" meaning the crazy far left then you told me to shut the fuck up about these people. Then you told me that some of your friends participated in riots. A riot (/ˈraɪət/) is a form of civil disorder commonly characterized by a group lashing out in a violent public disturbance against authority, property or people. Riots typically involve destruction of property, public or private. I don't need to know anything else, if you disturb the peace you deserve to be in jail. Don't even think that the far left rioters are somehow Union Civil War fighters. Those were legitimate fighters not disturbing the local population. They weren't a dumbass mob. What did the local store owner ever do to these people??? All of this is the result of the lamestream presstitute media and college indoctrination. 3. I said if it does exist then women are also contributing to it and more of them need to be aware of it. Women have a lot of power over young men. This article is an example of that acknowledgement by women but it's not enough.
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Post by 40oz on Nov 11, 2020 9:10:02 GMT -5
1. Really? Then why do you sound like a typical leftist? So I should start listening to far left propaganda, right? I say stop listening to propaganda because I actually mean stop listening to propaganda. Do I have to remind you that I don't get paid or have any political agenda? I'm aware propaganda is on both sides. I told you that. Toxic masculinity is not a left or right politics issue. It's a mental health issue and potential danger to society when left unchecked. 2. I didn't bring your friends up and I don't see why you had to. I said "these people" meaning the crazy far left then you told me to shut the fuck up about these people. Then you told me that some of your friends participated in riots. A riot (/ˈraɪət/) is a form of civil disorder commonly characterized by a group lashing out in a violent public disturbance against authority, property or people. Riots typically involve destruction of property, public or private. I don't need to know anything else, if you disturb the peace you deserve to be in jail. Don't even think that the far left rioters are somehow Union Civil War fighters. Those were legitimate fighters not disturbing the local population. They weren't a dumbass mob. What did the local store owner ever do to these people??? All of this is the result of the lamestream presstitute media and college indoctrination. I brought it up because you are where you are, talking about what's happened here based on filtered secondhand information you get from your curated news sources. I actually went. Here's a picture I found that a photographer took with me in it. These were peaceful protests, and they remained peaceful until the police instigated the violence by throwing tear gas, beating people up, firing rubber bullets, etc. The police here are unhinged. They're not superhero guardians of our society, they want crime to happen so they can use their military grade equipment and have reason to demand more funding. It's fun for them to be in battle armor and pick on teenagers. The police recruit these kinds of assholes on purpose because they unquestionably uphold our bullshit laws. There have also been some instances of agent provaceteurs who are on the side of the police but dress like protestors to initiate property destruction so that police can "rightfully" keep the peace. I'm pretty sure I saw a few of them but I didn't expect it when I went and didn't go prepared to record evidence of it. The media is and always has been on the side of the police, so when the police instigate violence, and protestors react to it, it's reported as though the rioters are all violent criminals who want to break into your house and kidnap your family. I watched it happen in real time. I went to the peaceful protests, then I went home. I'd watch my friends on social media posting pictures and videos of themselves at these peaceful protests, then look up the news to see headlines about how the city is in duress from all these savages. It's all corroborated to influence public opinion and delegitimize peoples actual firsthand experiences. 3. I said if it does exist then women are also contributing to it and more of them need to be aware of it. Women have a lot of power over young men. This article is an example of that acknowledgement by women but it's not enough. The article is talking about the wartime propaganda campaign that influenced the women! The same way it's influencing you to repeat the same "opinions" the media personalities tell you to without knowing the people who are effected by it. If you have a personal story where a shitty woman somehow provoked and encouraged toxic masculinity in you or someone you know, I'd like to hear it. I'm serious, I promise I'll give it my full attention. When you're telling me "this is what feminists and leftists think," I don't believe you because there's no way that a feminist or leftist would waste their time being friends with you and trust you with their own personal story when you overtly speak unsubstantiatedly about their beliefs and values with such disdain. That's the wedge that propaganda drives between us. Were really not all that different.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 11, 2020 10:03:11 GMT -5
Toxic masculinity is not a left or right politics issue. It's a mental health issue and potential danger to society when left unchecked. Stop promoting your assumptions about what is mental health issue or not. You are not a doctor, you are not a good example of non-toxic person either. Same with when you promote the idea that hate speech should be filtered out by algorithms, by the way. No, saying "<insert social group> do not deserve to be alive" is not what I would consider illegal. Now if someone said "that person will be walking alone at specific street around XX:YY time", with the fact that person is known to be gay/police officer/whatever social group - then yeah, the poster should be charged with conspiracy or incitement to murder - because he enables those predisposed to committing a crime to actually do it, by providing some circumstances that faciliate the action. But simply stating your hatred for a social group should not bring any repercussions, unless the poster enables some circumstances for crime to actually happen (providing weapons, such as by stating where they are, providing time and place, where you can catch a specific person or persons, etc.) And the source that @doomro used actually confirms women can incite certain behaviour in men. The question is not whether they did so because of propaganda - it's crystal clear they were used as a propaganda instrument, and that's exactly the point! That men are affected by what women choose, so by influencing women you can in turn influencing men. The propaganda utilized this fact. It should be noted that initially I too didn't undestand the point @doomro was trying to make when citing that article (and then saying it should be shown to feminists), but now it is clear as day to me. It's a bit backhanded way to prove the thesis that "women influence men's behaviour", with the implication that "what you consider toxic behaviour in men may be selected by women's preferences".
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