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Post by 40oz on Feb 17, 2021 14:50:48 GMT -5
Calling for death to pedophiles is totally performative. I am 110% dead set against child molestation. I'm saying that the statement of calling for harsher sentences to pedophiles is as good as saying that pedophilia is out of society's control and that action can only be taken AFTER the crime is committed.
This is false.
Criminal data has shown that harsher consequences DO NOT prevent crime any differently than reduced sentences accelerate crime. People such as myself who want child predation completely out of their communities should want successful and effective child molestation prevention, not retribution.
sidenote: I would sooner defer to an expert on what these preventative measures are than claim I know what to do about it, so don't ask what my plan is. I haven't really looked too deeply into it, and I'm a little hesitant to feed search engines with my data on this topic. I just know that it is the better direction to move in because, like anything, expressions of fear and disgust are powerless to the actual problem.
Celebrating and perpetuating expressions of killing pedophiles only informs potential child predators that they should socially isolate further before seeking any form of remediation. Those with a physical attraction to children have a really high probability of accidentally confiding in someone who would want to kill them should they every choose to out themselves. They really should have a higher probability of being connected to a sexual expert that can offer them a plan to manage it without them having to act on it. When they are socially isolated, and left to manage it on their own, I believe that is where the devious and predatory nature of the crime takes place.
In my opinion, the justifications people make for killing pedophiles counteracts the performative empathy they have for protecting children. It doesn't make you sound like you have a passion for saving children. You sound like you're validating a reason to kill people when the problem is solvable in another way.
>Fuck child predators >Do the work to get them an actual treatment. >Stop supporting capital punishment. >Actually save kids.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 17, 2021 21:19:37 GMT -5
I am, as of late, against death penalty in general, no matter what the crime. I admit I have not always been against death penalty, and my position on this matter is not deeply entrenched, but there are arguments against it that do matter to me. www.knowswhy.com/arguments-against-death-penalty/In particular, 2. Death penalty is irreversible: the risk of killing innocent men is high 5. Death penalty is often perpetrated by corrupt governments, authorized by skewed judicial systems, and used as a political tool Supporting death penalty even for one brand of criminals, in my view, paves the way for death penalty being used for punishing other crimes as well, so better to leave it prohibited for absolutely all criminal cases. As for treatment for pedophiles, if the current "scientific" consensus is that sexual orientation is something one is born with, rather than what is established during socialization, it is probable pedophilia is innate behavior too. Chemical castration requires compliance (can be counteracted by injecting other drugs) and is reversible, so not all that reliable despite its already high level of intrusion into person's life. Some consider even voluntary chemical castration to be already inhumane. On the other hand, I actually disagree with the view that sexual orientation is predetermined at birth, so I hope that pedophilia is treatable. P.S. When I say "sexual orientation is predetermined at birth" it does NOT imply "sexual orientation is a matter of person's conscious choice". There are other options, not easy for me to explain, though.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 17, 2021 21:59:45 GMT -5
Criminal data has shown that harsher consequences DO NOT prevent crime any differently than reduced sentences accelerate crime. Would you mind linking to this supposed "criminal data"? I could certainly be wrong, but I find it difficult to believe that a society that castrates and/or painfully kills child molesters would have similar amounts of kid-touching than one that just lets them roam free.
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Post by dn on Feb 18, 2021 2:24:13 GMT -5
Criminal data has shown that harsher consequences DO NOT prevent crime any differently than reduced sentences accelerate crime. Would you mind linking to this supposed "criminal data"? I could certainly be wrong, but I find it difficult to believe that a society that castrates and/or painfully kills child molesters would have similar amounts of kid-touching than one that just lets them roam free. Meaningful stats here are not going to happen; a society that goes in for physical mutilation of criminals tends not to be the sort of society that keeps accurate, open records. As for sexual orientation being something you are born with, that's a gross oversimplification. Everyone is a product of their environment: we are formed and shaped as from clay, not shat out fully formed into a predeterministic universe. And pedophilia is not even equatable with sexual orientation - this habit of equating sexuality with dangerous, fetishistic pathologies is the exact same shit that made people stone gays to begin with. It's a fucking medieval level understanding of psychology, and theories lumping "pedosexuality" alongside homosexuality will end up doing untold damage to legitimate LGB people as they find themselves folded into the same societal package as sexual predators, rapists, dog monglers and people with anime avatars. Chomo is not a sexual orientation. It's a pathology that has activated in response to trauma, it revels in control over the powerless and inflicting irreparable damage against innocence. It's an aimless revenge fantasy, it's satisfaction gained through the ruination of trust and the ultimate betrayal. Worse, it perpetrates itself. It is passed along through the generations of abused-cum-abuser like some fucked up original sin. And that is where the efforts at rehabilitation *need* to be targeted - you want to sort out the molester problem, you get in at the ground floor, you try your damnedest to sort out the victims first and foremost. And that is a lifelong therapy - even people who have come to terms with what happened to them as children often find themselves freaking out when they themselves become parents. Empathy kicks in when they look at their own naked, defenseless child, and they find themselves aware of a terrible seed that was planted in them by a predator. Empathy with their child; a soul-destroying, gut-churning empathy with their own near-forgotten abuser, risen anew like fucking satan from hell's own mist. It - like most matters of the human - is a fucking complex, near insoluble problem with no easy answer. Imperfect laws, imperect understanding, imperfect therapies and imperfect societies; the safest way forward is to empty the protected wings of prisons, plow the chomos into oiled pits and burn the disgusting fucks alive. Let a pillar of black smoke - five miles wide and rising ten miles high - go up into the heavens like a new tower of Babel. Let it be a visual, a warning, a celebration, a holocaust of the pedophiles. I'm honestly fucking fine with that, for nothing of value was lost.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 18, 2021 4:24:36 GMT -5
When there is a choice (i.e. it's not "either him or me"), killing people that don't want to die is always wrong no matter what. This statement doesn't require any support. There is no need to suggest alternatives, to ask "but what if it's a wrongful conviction?", to research whether capital punishment actually reduces crime, or anything. Killing is simply wrong, the end. You can call this my religious stance I guess.
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Post by 40oz on Feb 18, 2021 12:47:49 GMT -5
Criminal data has shown that harsher consequences DO NOT prevent crime any differently than reduced sentences accelerate crime. Would you mind linking to this supposed "criminal data"? I could certainly be wrong, but I find it difficult to believe that a society that castrates and/or painfully kills child molesters would have similar amounts of kid-touching than one that just lets them roam free. We're talking about abolishing death penalties, not offering pardons. It's pretty much impossible to find any studies that support that harsher sentences deter crime as far as I can tell. Search for yourself. EDIT: rather, the thread is more about the social stigma of pedophilia being so revolting that groups of people justify responding to it with the most extreme penalties they can think of (death.) I think this influences voters to justify legal capital punishment when we really don't need it, and it doesn't fix the problem. The pedophiles still have to ACT in order for us to use it. I don't know what kind of treatment centers for this are available in the US. There may be effective ones, there may be severely underfunded ones, or none at all. I'm kinda hesitant to look it up lest I flag the FBI to keep an eye on me. But if they do exist and are largely unknown, I suspect they are not getting the support they need, and we're just leaning on potential pedophiles to kill themselves or self-isolate forever, which is a really weak way to address the problem and not congruent with people's feelings about it.
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Post by dr_st on Feb 18, 2021 15:19:26 GMT -5
And pedophilia is not even equatable with sexual orientation - this habit of equating sexuality with dangerous, fetishistic pathologies is the exact same shit that made people stone gays to begin with. It's a fucking medieval level understanding of psychology, and theories lumping "pedosexuality" alongside homosexuality will end up doing untold damage to legitimate LGB people as they find themselves folded into the same societal package as sexual predators, rapists, dog monglers and people with anime avatars. There is an interesting point here that is often overlooked. On a technical level - homosexuality and pedophilia are both deviations from "the norm". And that's why in medieval times people would happily stone both. Why is it that in modern society one is viewed as a legitimate orientation, while the other as a dangerous pathology? The answer is simple - they vary greatly by their effects on individuals and on society. No one gets hurt when two mature adults are in a homosexual relationship of mutual consent, whereas pedophilia tends to cause great harm to the victims, and, transitively, to the society in general. That's why society has evolved to view these two things differently, and that's how it should be (at least in any kind of society that I would want to live in). I think it's best that people understand that this distinction is made for social reasons, and not try to justify it by biological theories. But I also accept that not all people can view it this way, and some may become confused.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 18, 2021 16:39:07 GMT -5
I think child molesters should either be executed or chemically castrated, with maximum imprisonment. While in prison, it is a good chance the life-sentenced inmates will actually kill the child molester.
The law has to do that, otherwise there will be rampant communal-vigilantism if people do not feel there is justice for their crimes. People will start going to mafias or gangs to seek justice.
In India, in sections with little-to-no rule of law, if a village catches a rapist, they all take turns sticking a knife in them. They sort of look like human pin-cushions.
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Post by 40oz on Feb 18, 2021 16:49:59 GMT -5
Why is it that in modern society one is viewed as a legitimate orientation, while the other as a dangerous pathology? The answer is simple - they vary greatly by their effects on individuals and on society. No one gets hurt when two mature adults are in a homosexual relationship of mutual consent, whereas pedophilia tends to cause great harm to the victims, and, transitively, to the society in general. You're putting these categories way too close. Gay and lesbian people are born gay. You can't be born knowing your attracted to children while you are one yourself. Pedophilia cannot resemble a loving relationship in remotely the same way as consenting gay or lesbian couples because a child inevitably grows up. The attraction is specifically an assertion of dominance because a child does not have the capacity to consent. It's not love, it's closer to the category of date rape. Like dn says, it varies from case to case, but most often it's a product of those who have once been molested themselves. The attraction is like a trauma response to reclaim their lost innocence somehow or something, I think? A person's value amounts significantly more than what their sexual desires are. I think people can be useful to society in ways even if they're not raising families or working near children. I think their trauma can be managed if they're getting the right support, and when/if that support is available, a mob that treats a lesser sentence than death like we're being soft on child molesters puts a very volatile gap between those succumbing to that attraction and the support they need to not act on it.
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Post by BIG DICK NIGGA on Feb 18, 2021 17:44:30 GMT -5
imo a long-ass prison sentence (idk, 10+ years) is better than the death sentence for crimes like this, simply because that way the criminal goes through a similar thing as the victim. a rape victim is traumatised for a long time/for life and has to live with that stuff. that's why just shooting the guy and letting him die right then feels wrong to me, because that way he will never understand what he has done to his victim. Does that make any sense? idk tho 🤷♂️🤷♀️ i'm not a lawmaker or a philosopher, i just shitpost on a forum with 50 members about how big my penis is. You sound like you're validating a reason to kill people when the problem is solvable in another way. Is it though? is the attraction to children something therapy can fix? I don't know.
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Post by joe-ilya on Feb 18, 2021 18:26:38 GMT -5
i just shitpost on a forum with 50 members about how big my member is. FTFY
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Post by dn on Feb 18, 2021 19:04:52 GMT -5
Like dn says, it varies from case to case, but most often it's a product of those who have once been molested themselves. The attraction is like a trauma response to reclaim their lost innocence somehow or something, I think? It's not about reclaiming lost innocence, imho. Like most forms of rape, it's about a fantasy of power and control, magnified from either an innate position of powerlessness (i.e: your typical incel type) or as an extension of power from an existing position of authority (i.e: your friendly neighborhood priest, Epstein, or Tory magnate). Your standard bullshit delusions of godhood, in other words. Pathologically, pedos are not impulsive - at least compared to, say, instances of OCD, or an arsonist who just burns shit in the spur of the moment - but the offender actively seeks out victims and opportunity. Indeed, to avoid consequences, he plans meticulously for months at a time. There is a malice of forethought and modus operandi here that moves this shit from the realm of untreated mental disorder into that of premeditated criminal enterprise: I'd argue that the seeking, planning, and manipulation of the victims provide more satisfaction to the perpetrator than the actual act itself. For context, this phase would be roughly analogous to the "wooing" phase of a normal relationship between two adults. Let that comparison percolate inside your brain for a bit before deciding if these people are truly worthy of even a single molecule of sympathy. Or pity. As for "fixing" offenders - sure, you can try shit. Psychic driving techniques only occasionally result in suicide, and we can teach rats to keep the fuck away from cheese by blasting them full of electricity whenever they start sniffing around the brie. Deballing the fuckers or pumping them full of hormone blockers does *not* remove the sex drive, it merely displaces it elsewhere, often into violence - consider the crimes of "impotent" serial killers who, when denied an outlet for their frustration, simply rip women apart to get their kicks. Castration in this instance works only in the sense of eugenics; it's probable that the reason for the upper 1% of society being so rancid with pedophiles is because the upper 1% are fucking amoral, Darwinian sociopaths - they have to possess that pathology in order to fuck everyone over on their way to the top and be able to sleep at night afterwards. Those heritable antisocial personality disorders, combined with greater opportunity and immunity from consequence, means a higher percentage of abusers move in the upper class. And those are the ones who can afford lawyers, even before you strap them into the proctologist's chair and come at their bollocks with a pair of secateurs. I don't think you can meaningfully "help" these people once they have passed the brink; the smart ones revel in their self-aggrandizing psychosis and the dumb ones are so fucking retarded that they think they are the victims in all this. At best, we can lobotomize them into drooling, perpetually masturbating and societally worthless meatsacks. It might be kinder to avoid such half-measures: life isn't sacred, and death is the ultimate hygiene of civilization. I'd take that as the price paid for living in a world that doesn't make me want to vomit.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 18, 2021 21:39:42 GMT -5
Gay and lesbian people are born gay. That's what we're told by certain segments of the LGBT movement, but it's not always true. Some gays are indeed born that way, but others choose it. Some will admit that they chose it. One of my co-workers flat out said to me that she chose it. Human sexuality is incredibly complicated, and there are limitations to what science can tell us.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 18, 2021 22:38:41 GMT -5
To clarify: in my message above I wasn't putting pedophilia in the same moral category as homosexuality or vice versa. If that's what started this train of thought about people putting them too close, I didn't intend it. I know next to nothing about pedophilia and in that paragraph I was merely speculating about whether it could be innate or obtained, and thus what could be our chances of treating it. The speculation also was not due to some theories read that lump the two together.
As for "life isn't sacred, and death is the ultimate hygiene of civilization" - I would agree, but I don't trust government to do the right judgement, and would rather not give them an authority to execute any people. They have enough opportunity to do this shit already (through wars). When nature sets out to kill people, for example, through COVID-19, it is a good thing and an example of natural selection, indeed. To add to that COVID-19 also resulted in many eye-opening events, such as exposure of various national leaders for what they really are. But it is not for humans to play gods.
The governments only really encourage people having children and the like because the economics model is built on the perpetually expanding population. They don't have any moral or altruistic motives in this - for them it is investment, that make them richer. So if they seem to want to deal with the issue pedophilia by promoting death penalty, what they really want is death penalty being promoted, or some other thing that benefits them, the 1% in power. The government never does anything for the community unless it benefits it in some way.
Giving them the authority to kill is thus a huge fucking mistake.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 19, 2021 2:12:35 GMT -5
Here are a few solutions. Jail the offenders, treat the non-offenders.
People like to act like this stuff doesn't exist, until it does. It is easy to understand why but not helpful. Kids need to be taught as soon as possible about consent, bodily autonomy and what stuff like this does to the brain. They also need to be taught to report these instances as soon as possible. If an adult does it to them, they must be the last person affected. If it's an older kid, they need to get the help they need because they can still be saved. Finally, they need to understand that if they don't report it, they might be partly responsible for future such events. This should be done by the parents but kindergartens should too, just to be sure. Maybe even bring a psychologist on a special occasion to explain this stuff. I think kids are mature enough to understand this, we just want to shield them as long as possible from the real world, which by the way is not a good idea. If a kid grows up with the idea that the world is perfectly safe, the effect is even worse when something like this happens to them. Or even something else. If the kid grows up in a violent household and is bombarded with images of positivity, round colorful shapes, they won't know what to make of it.
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Post by dr_st on Feb 19, 2021 2:30:13 GMT -5
You're putting these categories way too close. Gay and lesbian people are born gay. You can't be born knowing your attracted to children while you are one yourself. What you say here doesn't make much sense. Sexual attractions are not stabilized until post-puberty. Children typically go through phases of sexual games (like the "doctor-patient" games at a young age), with members of their own as well as the opposite sex, but it is not predictive as to where they will find themselves on the homo-heterosexual spectrum as adults, or whether they will develop any kind of sexual fetishes/pathologies etc. Like dn says, it varies from case to case, but most often it's a product of those who have once been molested themselves. The attraction is like a trauma response to reclaim their lost innocence somehow or something, I think? There is no data that suggests that pedophilia is "most often" a product of trauma. In fact, it turns out that science classifies pedophilia different from the behavior of child molestation. Not all people with pedophiliac tendencies end up molesting children, and what was more interesting for me to discover - not every child molester is automatically classified as a pedophile. Thus the topic of this thread, as I understand it, is more specifically about child molesters, not pedophiles. That's what we're told by certain segments of the LGBT movement, but it's not always true. Some gays are indeed born that way, but others choose it. Some will admit that they chose it. One of my co-workers flat out said to me that she chose it. Human sexuality is incredibly complicated, and there are limitations to what science can tell us. Since some people are inherently bisexual, there must be an element of choice present if/when such people decide to find long-term partners. I think science can tell (and has told) us a great deal. It is just that the violent parts of the LGBT movement apply strong bullying and silencing techniques, for their own political reasons, so that certain topics become taboo not only to discuss/advocate for, but even to do scientific research on.
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Post by dr_st on Feb 19, 2021 4:39:59 GMT -5
So if they seem to want to deal with the issue pedophilia by promoting death penalty, what they really want is death penalty being promoted I don't quite subscribe to the "government vs the people" angle, but from a different angle, this statement does ring somewhat true. It's relatively easy to get society to support death penalty for those who commit crimes against children, because it appeals to people on a very deep emotional level. Accepting this, though, inevitably opens up the discussion about where to draw the line. I think there is a fundamental question is - do we as a society want the death penalty to exist, and it's a complex one. I was firmly for it when I was young, and gradually became less and less convinced in that position.
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Post by deathevokation on Feb 22, 2021 0:47:25 GMT -5
lol why are people writing walls of pseudo intellectual text over this? pedophiles' only contribution to society is breaking people, sexually confusing them at a young age, damaging their ability to trust.. at the very least they shouldn't see the world outside of the prison cell lest they do it again.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 22, 2021 2:24:04 GMT -5
Pedophile just means someone with sexual attraction to children. You can be a pedophile your whole life and never act on it.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 22, 2021 8:49:41 GMT -5
Pedophile just means someone with sexual attraction to children. You can be a pedophile your whole life and never act on it. Those people have a moral obligation to get chemically castrated than.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 22, 2021 10:36:20 GMT -5
Pedophile just means someone with sexual attraction to children. You can be a pedophile your whole life and never act on it. But it is still big deal to have an attraction that cannot be legally expressed and has to be fought for the entire life. I hope you do understand that one so affected would really rather not have such an attraction then, and seek medical assistance to get rid of it. I am all for a solution that does the least amount of harm to the person with this problem but still reliably prevents them from harassing children. lol why are people writing walls of pseudo intellectual text over this? pedophiles' only contribution to society is breaking people, sexually confusing them at a young age, damaging their ability to trust.. at the very least they shouldn't see the world outside of the prison cell lest they do it again. First, I don't agree with the saying "pedophiles" only contribution to society is breaking people", because it assumes fucking children (or desiring to do so) is all they do, and that there are absolutely no other actions in their life, no possibility of education, employment in high tech industries and else. It is quite possible that someone affected with pedophilia has still made some meaningful contributions to society. I also consider restraining oneself from being "extreme" to be paramount to being cultured human rather than 2-feet walking animal. We could execute or jail for life all criminals, but we don't. You also ignored that we brought up the issue of whether "death penalty" should exist at all, which is actually meaningful and there are differing opinions on this matter. Yes, some comments (including mine) can be described as "pseudo intellectual" on the account that they are not backed by research, personal experience and the like, but this doesn't mean the topic itself is trivial. And your post is not an intellectual contribution either.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 22, 2021 10:45:50 GMT -5
Pedophile just means someone with sexual attraction to children. You can be a pedophile your whole life and never act on it. Those people have a moral obligation to get chemically castrated than. Unfortunately, this treatment requires compliance and can be counteracted by injecting testosterone. Worse yet, an individual that was initially compliant may recognise that absense of any sexual drive has a profound impact on their life, which may make them seek out testosterone injection for relief, only to find out that the urge returns and is more difficult to control than before (when testosterone is reintroduced after a long period of suppression, it may cause psychosis, acts of uncontrollable violence, and the like). It may actually cause the person to become an actual offender for the first time, or make them get in trouble for something else.
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Post by deathevokation on Feb 22, 2021 23:41:23 GMT -5
I never singled you out as a pseudo intellectual.. but humanizing pedophiles is literally the opposite of what we need right now with all the chaos that's been happening recently and that's not counting the increase in childporn searches from countries like India being related to quarintine, even just looking where on the political spectrum the people that are pro humanizing it stand and how they're are starting to see it less through the eyes of the actual victims and more through their own eyes and it all just looks like the "slippery slope fallacy" might not be a fallacy afterall if you look at the positions they stood for 5 years ago vs the positions they stand on now,..
I'd also be less revulsed about it if in my country raping women and children wasn't seen as a tool of war by "revolutionaries" to demoralize and humiliate communities and it being used as a legitimate tactic on a much larger scale elsewhere in Africa in places like Congo where they raid entire villages at a time.. and then there's breathing, thinking commies that brush it off in arguments as "a symptom of a black man finding out about the history of his people" when they start targeting white girls too.
In America i just find it funny that the ruling class who are forcing the dialogue onto us with "opinion pieces" (some of which are now deleted) are disproportionately responsible for scandals relating to pedophilia (and these are just the people that get caught redhanded), and then more alarmingly there's big tech companies like facebook and twitter cleaning their platforms of Hunter Biden's sex tapes and seeing the left banding together to gaslight everyone into thinking the videos don't exist.. honestly i don't think we'd ever be ready to have such a conversation as long as one side continues to act like ideologically possessed demon spawn that'll go as far as defending evil out of touch rich pedophiles before going on to virtue signal over whatever the latest woke topic is.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 22, 2021 23:57:46 GMT -5
Those people have a moral obligation to get chemically castrated than. Unfortunately, this treatment requires compliance and can be counteracted by injecting testosterone. Worse yet, an individual that was initially compliant may recognise that absense of any sexual drive has a profound impact on their life, which may make them seek out testosterone injection for relief, only to find out that the urge returns and is more difficult to control than before (when testosterone is reintroduced after a long period of suppression, it may cause psychosis, acts of uncontrollable violence, and the like). It may actually cause the person to become an actual offender for the first time, or make them get in trouble for something else. I think if someone recognizes they have an issue, than it is their moral obligation to be chemically castrated, and to stay that way. If they don't and never act on their urges, no one will ever know. I am sure people fantasies about all kinds of disgusting shit. But if they do act, than I think execution is fitting. Therefore, I think death penalty should apply to pedophiles, or chemical castration with maximum penalty in prison.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 24, 2021 6:47:06 GMT -5
I hope you do understand that one so affected would really rather not have such an attraction then, and seek medical assistance to get rid of it. You know, this seems like such an obvious thing to us, but many pedophiles might think differently. For example, a lot of autists don't consider their condition a problem and are even insulted by the idea that it's a disorder that needs to be "cured", as if it made them defective or something. Also there are quite a few deaf people that refuse to get a hearing implant and even criticize other deaf people for doing so, saying that it reinforces the idea that being able to hear is preferable and makes you a superior human being. It can be extremely difficult to wrap your head around this stuff, but I think basically what's happening is that when people live their life with some kind of condition for years and years, it can turn into an integral part of their identity and then the thought of "fixing" it actually becomes repulsive, even when the said condition makes integrating into society much more difficult.
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