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Post by good-old on Jan 8, 2022 2:08:12 GMT -5
Are you "Sean"? I couldn't talk at the time 'cause I was afk. Also I would PM instead of further derailing this thread but you've blocked me lol
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Post by mayhemicdestrvctor on Jan 8, 2022 15:30:12 GMT -5
i don 't know how to unblock people sorry
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Post by 40oz on Jan 10, 2022 15:45:56 GMT -5
Also I would PM instead of further derailing this thread Please dont worry about that. Let me worry about that.
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Post by mayhemicdestrvctor on Jan 10, 2022 18:21:14 GMT -5
ok
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Post by good-old on Jan 11, 2022 4:43:42 GMT -5
Cool. So mayhemicdestrvctor assuming you were "Sean", just do the same thing you did to join the channel, but put the name you want instead of "Sean".
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Post by mayhemicdestrvctor on Jan 11, 2022 4:43:56 GMT -5
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Post by mayhemicdestrvctor on Jan 19, 2022 19:29:17 GMT -5
is there a way to cope with when people are not interested in being friends or spending time
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Post by mayhemicdestrvctor on Jan 19, 2022 19:39:42 GMT -5
and exgirlfriends
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Post by Deleted on Jan 19, 2022 22:20:36 GMT -5
mayhemicdestrvctorAlas, modern generation of youth has done away with meaningful connections. They are hooked to their phones, which are their mates, and other people are just accessories. You can cope by: 1. Finding something creative you can succeed in doing. Bit problematic when you are a new mapper or your brain is wired differently (like mine for programming, I suck at art). 2. Doing sports. Running or cycling might still get you some mates to hang out with. You don't have to be a professional athlete, and also you will probably build actual meaningful connections you wouldn't get in a bar. Important thing: don't try to procrastinate by doing passive things like watching TV, cinema, etc. You can't help your mood by being a consumer. You have to become a creator. Cut or at the very least reduce time spent with your nose in smartphone and social networks, they are built to keep you up all the time by making you anxious and unhappy, this keeps the money flowing in Zuckerberg's (and other assholes') pocket. People you might envy there spend a lot of time of projecting a far superior image compared to what they are in actuality, if you compare yourselves to them you will feel on the bottom of the deep pool.
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Post by mayhemicdestrvctor on Jan 19, 2022 22:55:46 GMT -5
what people i don 't go on any social networks i was blasting my ears with deathmetal last 5 hours or so and i am not sure if i should keep mapping because they don 't seem to be good i just feel like an idiot when i make them
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Post by mayhemicdestrvctor on Jan 19, 2022 23:02:07 GMT -5
it 's probably embarassing i haven 't opened my phone in like a year every thing they post is stupid they post only stuff that no one cares about i feel like they 're empty idiots with out personality and i get angry when i look at them they just post photos with 1000 filters and every one likes them that makes me think that i don 't even want to be anywhere and just give up because every one really likes those ... they never post any thing interesting if i go on youtube there 's cool channels who make reviews or upload good music albums all the time or talk about interesting topics ...okay well sorry that i was getting angry over that whenever i feel reminded of them i just feel how stupid this is. okay any way what good methods are there so i can motivate my self to create more maps
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Post by BIG DICK NIGGA on Jan 20, 2022 8:43:20 GMT -5
is there a way to cope with when people are not interested in being friends or spending time Getting other friends and being around people in general works the best Yes I know it's hard af
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Post by Deleted on Jan 20, 2022 9:36:58 GMT -5
is there a way to cope with when people are not interested in being friends or spending time Getting other friends and being around people in general works the best No, it doesn't. You can visit a bar jam packed with people but you can't get a meaningful connection there. One has to develop some merits so he'll be around people of quality and not some randos. And of course you would know nothing about it because you have no merits whatsoever.
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Post by mayhemicdestrvctor on Jan 20, 2022 10:39:52 GMT -5
how can i do it properly
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Post by BIG DICK NIGGA on Jan 20, 2022 11:34:06 GMT -5
Try not to be by yourself all day. You don't have to develop alcoholism or move to a hippie commune, but call up some of your remaining friends to go do something once in a while. I SWEAR when you have some sort of movement around yourself, it all seems less serious. I think it reminds you that life will go on regardless.
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Post by mayhemicdestrvctor on Jan 20, 2022 11:53:10 GMT -5
okay
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Post by mayhemicdestrvctor on Jan 20, 2022 11:56:27 GMT -5
i have one but his mother still thinks it 's illegal to go outside because of the virus and i can not meet him at his place too
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Post by kvsari on Jan 20, 2022 19:41:14 GMT -5
mayhemicdestrvctor I agree with the advice here about being active. You need to stay active. This doesn't necessarily mean going outside and meeting people, but it does mean at the very least being mentally active. Thus no passivity. Don't sit around watching youtube videos all day or just reading wikipedia. Even if you sit on your bum indoors keep your mind active; writing, mapping, programming, arts & crafts, science experiments, researching, scholarly work, etc etc. I strongly believe it is an inactive mind (whether inside or outside) that makes one feel down. You get this feeling of torpor and the colour and wonder of life is sucked out. So stay active (mentally). It's much easier to keep an active mind whilst outside though. I try to follow my own advice regarding this. For example; when I watch a youtube video of a game, if I find myself watching it for more than twenty minutes I check if I can get the game and if so I buy it and play it. But if I can't get the game (or I don't want to) I flat out stop watching any further videos of that game on youtube. This is to stop me from being mentally passive and to go back to being mentally active. And never give up! PS. Thanks to this youtube habit, I hardly watch youtube videos anymore. FREEDOM! So find your own way of spurring yourself back into activity.
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Post by good-old on Jan 22, 2022 14:21:19 GMT -5
Alas, modern generation of youth has done away with meaningful connections. They are hooked to their phones, which are their mates, and other people are just accessories. LMFAO true. Makes you sound like a random zoomer's parent, but it really is somewhat true. If I actually had someone around irl with common interests, then maybe I would do shit other than sitting at my pc all day(and school will never not be something to not put the blame on for not doing anything productive), but there isn't, and it's waaaaaaaaaay easier to find a person with common interests online. I disagree that connections made on the internet are not meaningful, though. The internet is a blessing for people with no rl friends.
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Post by mayhemicdestrvctor on Jan 23, 2022 2:34:11 GMT -5
okay fuck because i was just in bed the 2 entire last days and i think i 'm never going to meet any one and not even here i really think that and i feel like no one would ever care about me or any thing i even do so i didn 't have a reason to stop sleeping and if i had these online or irl friends who would even still talk to me i think maybe it would be easier to make my self active
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Post by joe-ilya on Jan 23, 2022 6:13:14 GMT -5
You need vitamin D.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 23, 2022 6:33:20 GMT -5
Yeah, that thing is awesome. Boosts immunity too. Protects against COVID-19 better than fake vaccine anyway. I take 10000 mE daily as per therapist prescription, we are sun-starved in this region and some other meds I take makes my skin burn on summer's sun unless sunblockers are used, hence the dose.
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Post by mayhemicdestrvctor on Feb 2, 2022 12:54:26 GMT -5
i have a question how can i convince everyone to want to be friends with me
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Post by TheFantasticFungiFan on Feb 2, 2022 13:15:59 GMT -5
i have a question how can i convince everyone to want to be friends with me Just be social, try to be yourself (although certain cultural "norms" can make this difficult sometimes), and it'll come naturally. The more practice you get, the more natural it will feel. Find people with common interests, avoid places where troublesome people meet. When I was a kid, I used to always ask people (after knowing them for a while) if they wanted to be friends. In hindsight, that can make you come across as strange or insecure. As a general rule of thumb, if you have to "convince" someone to be your friend, they probably aren't worth being friends with in the first place.
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Post by mayhemicdestrvctor on Feb 2, 2022 14:49:16 GMT -5
okay and how can i convince my exgirlfriends to be friends with me does it help if they were girlfriends one day because they alreday know me so does it make a difference
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